Breaking cycles without blaming yourself.

Why awareness is the first step Perhaps you promised yourself you would parent differently. You would be calmer, more patient and emotionally available. You would never say the things that were said to you. Then your child shouts, refuses to cooperate or presses on the one tender place you have been trying to protect. Before […]
The conversations couples keep putting off.

Most relationships are not undone by one dramatic argument. More often, distance develops through the conversations that never quite happen. The comment that hurt but was brushed aside. The affection that slowly disappeared. The imbalance in parenting, money or responsibility. The apology that never came. The question one person is frightened to ask. Couples avoid […]
When your body remembers what your mind wants to forget.

You may know that you are safe. The crisis has passed. You have understood what happened and tried to move forward. Yet your body does not always seem to have received the message. A tone of voice makes your chest tighten. A disagreement leaves you unable to think clearly. A smell, expression or silence creates […]