The Divorce Mindset
The Divorce Mindset
I can help you to understand the hidden psychology of divorce. The hidden psychology of divorce explains why clarity feels impossible when you need it most.
Divorce isn’t just legal, it’s emotional, psychological, and relational.
Divorce is not just an ending, it is a transition point. With the right support, it can be the beginning of a more grounded, confident and fulfilling life. This is trauma informed, therapeutic coaching deeply rooted in psychological preparation and practical support readiness.
This is not the end. It’s the beginning of who you are becoming next.
Divorce Coaching
Whether you’re considering separation - but simply not sure if this is the right thing, navigating the process, or rebuilding afterwards, my trauma informed coaching combines therapeutic insight with practical strategies. It provides the tools to reduce conflict, manage overwhelm, and make clear decisions aligned with your future. With expert guidance, you can feel empowered to move forward with strength, resilience, and a renewed sense of self.
Helping you move through divorce with clarity, strength and purpose.
I am offering you Trauma-aware coaching, therapeutic coaching and support for a healthier divorce process, simplifying the difficult and bringing clarity. This is support that helps lawyers, clients, and the process.
With expert, trauma-informed guidance, you’ll feel more equipped to make clear decisions, reduce conflict, and create a future that feels truly your own.
For Family Law Firms
Divorce and separation are never just legal matters, they carry deep emotional and psychological impact that often shapes how clients engage with the legal process. When clients are overwhelmed or traumatised, the cases can become prolonged, conflict escalates, and the demands placed on lawyers increase. Understanding the psychology behind divorce and conflict, the impact that stress has on the brain, I can offer key insights and interventions to maximise positive outcomes for clients and families.
I can develop a trauma informed approach with you and your firm, offer training, lunchtime sessions and confidential webinars.
About the Divorce Coaching Programme
Divorce, Separation and legal issues can be challenging, stressful and at time overwhelming. Legal processes can feel confusing and with huge amounts of information, at a time when you are likely to be experiencing a wide range of emotions.
This coaching programme is designed to help you approach divorce with support to bring clarity and confidence from a safe structured space. Through structured support, practical strategies, reflective guidance, and powerful techniques, you will gain the tools to manage emotions, manage the changes and make informed decisions. Together, we work on reducing overwhelm, improving communication and building resilience so you can move through this transition with strength and purpose.
You will leave each session with greater clarity, practical strategies and the confidence to make decisions that align with your future.
Each programme is tailored to you and what you need.
Programme Includes
Access to the Divorce Programme
Private and bespoke 1:1 Sessions
A Structured, evidence-based process, tailored to you
A Bespoke Plan Each session
Check in’s, support in between sessions
Membership to the Therapy Toolbox
Access to Guided Audios, Videos and Training Sessions, Blogs and Worksheets
Onward support options, including workshops and retreats.
Coaching with Sonya
I bring my knowledge, expertise and skills to people within a safe framework, with warmth and sensitivity coupled with practical, no nonsense approach. I have experienced difficult life events, not least, both divorce and a traumatic separation. I am a single parent to 2 amazing teenagers. I know the challenges from the inside - and I know how to come out the other side stronger.
Transformation is possible.
I am here to show you how and support you through life transitions, so that you can live the life you want.
Sonya’s Coaching draws from -
CBT, EMDR, Compassion Focussed Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Mindfulness and Positive Psychology, Family Mediation.
Powerful techniques are used including Breathwork, somatic and body techniques, Guided Imagery and Visualisation Techniques.
Neuroscience, Mindset, Resilience, Regulating your Nervous system along with Information about divorce, options, processes, managing conflict and related issues are included.
I am available across the UK and Worldwide.